At the age of 44 he helps his brother with yard work, household chores, and maintenance of their mountain home.  He likes to go fishing and walks a mile to get the mail each day.  When he has the opportunity, he enjoys participating at Mass in the church community where he feels welcome and accepted.  He’s a member of Faith and Light, which is an international spiritual movement supporting developmentally disabled persons.  He truly practices unconditional love, is kind and considerable, and seems to be spiritually sound.  For two years he volunteered at a local nursing home where he felt needed, loved, and respected.  He received several awards for that service, which mean more to him than money actually.  His self-esteem has been helped by the praises and appreciation of the facility’s staff and patients.

My son’s personal priesthood seems to have been anointed by God.  My original prayer for a normal, healthy child was answered in ways more awesome than I could have ever imagined.  This son has touched many lives as he simply loves God, himself, and others.

I’m glad his life was saved in the emergency room when I was 7 months pregnant, rather than “let nature take the course it was taking.”  Grateful for his life, I realize he brought humility to our family, as well as a special education for each of us.  We got the Special Education!  His journey is our journey.

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